Parenting for the Launch What I Wish I Knew at 18 What I Wish I Knew at 18 What I Wish I Knew at 18 What I Wish I Knew at 18 What I Wish I Knew at 18 What I Wish I Knew at 18

Is This Your Year to Fertilize or Prune?

1/8/2020 3:39:56 PM

Those of you who know me well know that gardening isn’t my thing. In fact, my thumb is so brown that you wouldn’t want me near your plants! I’m not sure why, but I think I overdo it with watering and fertilizer. More is better, so they say.
And, so it often goes with our early planning for a new year. I, for one, habitually fall into that trap. It might look something like this:
  • A five new goals list, complete with a fancy new planner to keep me on task
  • A listing of a dozen new podcasts or TED talks to listen to
  • A membership to that new health club in town
  • Two new magazine subscriptions and a plan to tackle my book backlog
  • Cut 15 minutes off of my sleep time so I can do more
Compelling new additions to my already full plate, right? Or, back to the gardening analogy, more water and fertilizer applied to a plant that’s already stressed. Here is where moredoesn’t necessarily fix the problem—especially when the first word we use to describe our life is, “busy.”
Or, could this be a year where less may be more? Where we do some judicious pruning in order to bear more fruit? I heard this in a sermon the other day and it really resonated. So, when I returned home, I did what any non-arborist would do, and googled, “Benefits of pruning.” Here were some of the takeaways:
  1. Stimulates a strong network of healthy new growth
  2. Improves fruit quality
  3. Improves root formation
  4. Removes those unsightly sucker branches that stunt growth and nutrition
I rather like these! Instead of always adding, perhaps a trim here and a trim there will stimulate even greater abundance—in our plants and in our lives. Here, a pruning candidate list might look like:
  • Spending less time on social media and devices
  • Cutting back or eliminating time spent on reading, listening, and watching programs/content that brings us down or stresses us out
  • Reducing our consumption of addicting, unhealthy substances
  • Eliminating toxic elements and relationships from our lives
  • Trimming anything that wastes our time or resources
  • Addressing regrets and busyness that’s interfering with our relationships
  • Reducing spending on non-essentials to improve our financial peace of mind 
So, what about you? Could your life use a little more fertilizer or pruning? I think I’m going to try some pruning for once and see how it goes.
Happy 2020 from all of us at LifeSmart! We hope this will be your most abundant and fruitful year yet.

Tagged as: new year, 2020, resolutions, change, life perspective, goals, goal setting

Permalink | Leave a Comment (0 Comments) | Print Blog Post

Comments On

Please leave your comments for Is This Your Year to Fertilize or Prune?.

Click here for Bulk Orders

Schedule Dennis to Speak at your Event or Organization

King 5 News - New Day Northwest - Giving Your Kids Wings, Not Strings: Parenting strategies to help us let go

Wings Not Strings
What People are Saying

What I Wish I Knew at 18
What People are Saying

Parenting for the Launch
What People are Saying

Welcome New Partners!

Email Dennis Trittin

Friend Dennis on FacebookFollow Dennis on Twitter